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5 Ways To Please Your Mistress

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So, you’ve finally admitted to yourself and your Mistress your truth: You’re a pathetic, needy, horny cockslut who needs to be trained. You crave submission. Your heart pounds at the thought of truly letting go and letting a beautiful Domme tell you exactly what to do and how to do it.

Well, you’ve got a lot to learn sub. Are you certain you’re up to the task? Here are five basic tips to help you on your path to total obedience.

Choose A Wisely

Recognizing you are a submissive is the first step in your quest to kinky bliss. Take the time to pick a dominant that is capable and knowledgeable about how to handle a newbie sub. Knowing you are a submissive at heart does not mean submission will come easy. You need to seek out a Dominant that will know exactly how to unlock that secret part of you that you’ve kept hidden.

Figure Out Your Limits

Submission is a journey for the submissive and the Dominant. Entering into a D/s relationship will test and stretch you physically, mentally, spiritually and emotionally. Take time to figure out how far you are willing to go. What hard limits are you certain you can’t go past? Discuss these with your Mistress and decide on a safeword. Setting boundaries and sharing expectations is a healthy way to begin.

Follow Directions

You’ve got your safeword and you’ve discussed boundaries. Now, you must follow Her directions without question or hesitation. The first rule of a dutiful sub is obedience. Show your devotion to Her by following her directions correctly the first time. After all, you know you were made to please your Mistress. There are bound to be hiccups along the way for you and your Dominant. That’s part of the process! Remember, perfection isn’t always the goal, but rather your dedication to submission.

Communicate

Communication is key in any healthy relationship, but especially so when BDSM is a part of it. You should always be able to discuss how you feel, what you need or want and your Domme should take the time to listen and share as well. This is no one size fits all rules or goals for you as a sub. Your experiences are unique to you and your Mistress. Remember BDSM should always be safe, sane, and consensual!

Are you ready to enjoy exploring the depths of your kinky sexual nature? 

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