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Ally Amour’s Guide To Kink: Bondage Positions For Couples

Part One

Ahhhhh…Marriage.
You meet someone. You fall in love. You get married. The honeymoon stage begins and ends. Sooner or later routine sets in.
Where did all the fire and mind-blowing sex go?

Sounds familiar? Well, the good news is that you are not the only one stuck in marital drudgery and boredom. Most of us find ourselves in a sexually frustrating routine. The grinding effects of daily life, dealing with kids, bills and long hours at work take their toll.

Not to worry. Ally Amour is here to help spice up your sex life with your partner, bring back the fire and passion in the bedroom and put that contented euphoric smile where it belongs: on your face!

How, do you ask?

I have spoken extensively and played with couples with phonesex. I’ve also experimented in my own sex life, and researched ways to enhance your sex life with your partner and beyond. There are so many fun and cost-effective ways to really heat up those intimate times with your partner.

How about some Bondage Sex positions?

In this installment of Ally Amour’s Guide to Kink, we will explore a few titillating bondage sex positions for play. Make sure to discuss and set boundaries with your partner before starting bondage play, so you both know how far you wish to go. Exploration should always be done with consideration, respect and safety.

You may decide and choose a “safe word”. A safe word is used most often by the submissive to take a break or stop the play or act.

Ease into your chosen kink gradually. How far you are willing to go is up to you and your partner. Every couple is different and it’s important that both of you will be on the same page. Pay attention to body language of one another and communicate clearly at all times.

Ready? Set? GO:

Suggested Supplies:
Bed, frame, a silk or satin scarf, a tie, stockings or pantyhose, blindfold. Special restraints can be purchased in adult stores as well. Here are some fun bondage position to try together!

conquistador sex position

The Conquistador Position

Also known as the Missionary, is the easiest way to ease into beginner’s bondage. Simply lie on your back with your legs and arms spread. Have your partner tie up your arms and legs to the bed frame, using silk scarf/pantyhose/ties.

The Cowgirl Position

Either standard or reverse cowgirl will provide the ‘woman on top’ control position, whilst the male tied or restrained to the bed frame.

Leap Frog Sex Position

The Leap frog position

Lie with your stomach flat on the mattress. Have your partner bind your wrists over your head to the bed frame. Your partner may even blindfold you for added edge. Lift your hips for rear entry. Keep your shoulders down and knees rooted whilst he (or she with a strap on) thrusts.

Rear Entry Sex Postion

The Rear Entry Standing Position

Bend over. Have your partner bind your wrists to your ankles. Your feet should be anchored shoulder width apart for better balance. Your partner will then enter you from behind, keeping their hands firmly on your hips to keep you from tipping over.

Pinball Sex Position

The Pinball Wizard Position


This position is like the Leap Frog, but in reverse! Lay with your back flush and flat on mattress. Lift your hips (like in a Yoga Bridge). Your partner will bind your hands behind your back, grab your butt whilst you wrap your legs around their waist as they thrust.

Seated Rear Entry Sex Position

The Seated Rear Entry Position

Grab a sturdy chair and have your partner sit down. Tie their wrists and ankles to the chair frame. Straddle them and pump up and down. You can do this whilst facing them or turned away.

Knees to Chest Sex Position

The Knees To Chest Position

Have your partner bind your ankles and calves together. Then, whilst you’re lying on your back, drape them over one shoulder as your partner penetrates you. You may use restraints or even cuffs to have your partner bind your wrists above your head.

Downward Dog Sex Position

The Downward Dog Position

Assume roughly the same position as the leap frog, but have your partner handcuff your wrists behind your back or to the bed frame above your head. Spread your legs. They should kneel between your legs and enter you from behind while your body is flat against the mattress. Then, have them reach a hand around to stroke your clitoris or penis, depending on who is the Dom and who is the sub.

It’s also quite exciting to find sexy, fun and unusual costumes and fetish wear. You can either create or purchase these outfits in adult stores and online. Dressing up may help you get into your role. After all, you are trying to escape the same old persona and routine marital sex. I do suggest that my callers use wigs, costumes and even a different perfume to break into new grounds. The goal is to explore exciting new paths and ways to achieve sexual fulfillment with your partner.

Remember to ease into things and keep the lines of communication open!

Feel free to call me, Ally Amour, at Ext. 8213 for hot phonesex and any questions or guidance, alone or with your partner. I look forward to being your teacher, your Mistress and play partner.

Sources: Woman’s Health, Man’s Health, Your Tango.

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